There’s a saying that goes “celebrate the little moments, because one day you’ll look back and realise they were big moments.”
It doesn’t exactly roll of the tongue, and when I first read this quote many moons ago, I rolled my eyes at the tragic “instagramable-ness” of the quote. “People will really try to make a quote out of any obvious sentiment” I thought.
Ironically, since that very first eye-roll, I’ve come to realise how very true that simple thought is. If you don’t take the time to reflect and celebrate the small moments, who will?! Before long when you look back and realise that they were in fact big moments, it’s too late, and the sands of time will continue to run.
My recent ‘small moment’ of significance, is my one year anniversary of landing here in the Netherlands (shout out to the 9th of July!) Hence, I’d like to invite you all, my dear readers, to take a trip with me down memory lane.
In honour of these past 12 months, I’m celebrating by sharing my 12 realisations, opinions, and tidbits about the Netherlands that I have gleaned over my time here.
1Cyclists rule the roost
And that’s all there is to it. Most cyclists are impatient, some like to take their time, but all are in it for themselves. It’s just the lay of the land (pun) here in the NL.
2Dutch people like to pretend they are very healthy people
I say pretend because some of their typical foods include: stroopwafels (hello diabetes), gevulde koek (I’m biased, these are just delicious), bitterballen (hello, high cholesterol), frikandel (whatever the hell that is) and kaassouffle (another fave, so no comment) amongst many others.
But, I kid. All that cycling around keeps them fit as paarden!
3All Dutch people can speak English
That is something every modern tour-guide, book, person, and website will tell you and it is indeed the truth. What they fail to elaborate on is the fact that “Dunglish” is also spoken by many Dutch people.
For example, a Dutch persons cousin and their niece/nephew is truly only understood if you first get a short family history to understand which relative we are referring to. Neef/niggie means cousin AND niece/nephew, but is fully dependent on context.
4A “normal” cup of tea is black
BLACK. That means no milk. It’s the tragedy of a nation that so few Dutchies understand why on earth I would drink milk with my tea — and even fewer Dutchies would ever do so themselves.
Earl Grey tea and hot milk. Is there any greater combination?! I think not, but apparently the Dutch think otherwise.
5Going Dutch is the way to go
Love it, hate it, who doesn’t like a good bargain? I have heard some crazy stories of Dutch people being cheap though (like insisting on showering at the gym to save on water costs at home) but the benefits of this phenomenon are also that splitting the bill at a restaurant is a breeze.
If you’ve ever had a group dinner you’ll understand why it’s so important that you can pay only for the water and broodje that you had, and your mate Jelle can settle his steak, frites and red wine on his own account.
6Never trust apple weather
Ironically, even though I know this, Apple Weather is still the only weather app I have on my phone. Dutch people swear by Buienradar, but based on personal experience this is also not the most reliable (I can practically hear you forming your argument as I type this.)
But here’s my top advice for being fashionable and weather-ready, despite what your choice of app says: just wear whatever, pop on a jacket, and take an umbrella. Rather hot and overdressed than wet and underdressed, right?
7Never trust the weather in general
You rise in the morning and see a welcoming, sunny day. Yet what that sunny day will fail to reveal is that its master plan is to pour all afternoon, leaving you stranded at work with no umbrella or jacket because you were gullible and let yourself be lulled into a false sense of security. See #6 regarding all-weather clothing.
8The Dutch limit overseas vacations to a small number of areas
When you ask Dutchies about their valuable vakantie tijd, the destinations will include Bali, Thailand, South America, and occasionally a bit more Asia (Japan, China, Singapore.) This is a gross generalisation based on a sample of my many Dutch friends, but I don’t think it’s too far from the truth.
Also, the norm here is to take about six weeks of solid vacation time. It’s appealing, but how do you survive the rest of the year without a break? It’s remains a Dutch mystery I suppose.
9The Dutch healthcare system leaves a lot to be desired
Am I wrong? Seriously, I want to hear if I am?! I have heard really tough stories from friends who have struggled to see specialists and get adequate medication to alleviate their symptoms.
For any expat it’s enough to make you take a trip to your birth country for all the procedures and meds you might need — but then you consider how expensive basic insurance here is and you figure you may as well try make the best of what you’ve paid for!
10Schiphols bag scanners are the best thing since sliced bread
No jokes. There’s no hassle about trying to fit all of your toiletries into a tiny plastic bag. At Schiphol, I’m just told to “Keep everything in your bag”. Simple pimple. It’s about time the rest of the airports join us in 2019.
11Spreek jij Nederlands?
This one is for the expats: When you are coming in or out of the Netherlands and you hand over your residence card at passport control the question they will undoubtedly ask is: “Spreek jij Nederlands?”
It’s like a trick question, a test to see how much you truly deserve that residence card and if you really should be in this country.
The answer to this question is always: “Een beetje, maar ik leer”. Even as my Dutch improves there’s always that split second (okay, multiple split seconds) when I think in English and get too shy to speak Dutch so I just pretend I don’t know.
12The strangest Dutch word
Magnetron. It means “microwave”, but sounds like the name of the newest Transformer movie that I’ll be able to catch in my local Pathe next month at the “Unlimited Night” screening.
What realisations did you come to after living in the Netherlands? Let us know in the comments below!
Feature Image: Cornelia Ras/Pexels
Editor’s Note: This article was originally published in July 2019, and was fully updated in September 2020 for your reading pleasure.