Yep, you read that right — this Dutch guy sparked quite the conversation after having to explain Dutch work culture to his American manager.
In the Netherlands, work-life balance is a non-negotiable. So when this Dutchie was asked to work outside hours, he was shocked.
What happened?
Posting to Reddit’s r/WorkReform subreddit, the Dutchman recounted how he’d been called in to a meeting with his American manager to discuss his ‘commitment to the team.’
Yikes. That’s never a good sign.
To his surprise, though, the complaint was that he was only working within his paid hours. What a crazy thing to do, right?
The manager explained his frustration that the Dutchman was signing off of Slack at precisely 5 PM (the end of his workday) and was unreachable before 9 AM the next day.
His reaction? Pure shock
The author of the post explained that he gave the manager “a reality check” about how things are done here in the land of clogs.
In his own words, “I looked him in the eye over Zoom and told him that in the Netherlands, if you can’t finish your work by 5 PM, it doesn’t mean you are dedicated. It means you are inefficient or understaffed.”
Boom! Direct hit.
American vs. Dutch work culture
The post’s virality can be traced to a known issue: American work culture clashes with Dutch culture.
As we know, our tall friends are direct, to the point, and ridiculously punctual. While that may be frustrating when planning brunch, it’s certainly an asset in the workplace.
Dutch labour law states that working outside your hours is not required, and the general culture of precision means that if your hours are 9-5 PM, you sign off at exactly 5 PM.
In fact, there is even a movement to adopt a ‘right to disconnect’ law that would make it illegal for employers to contact employees outside their working hours. Many European countries have already codified this, writes AD, so really, the Netherlands is lagging behind.
But to the American work-horse, this sounds (no pun intended) unreachable — the red-white-and-blue work culture is that the grind don’t stop.
But like the Dutch, we think, why grind if you’re not getting paid for it?
Happy ending (this time)
Thankfully, this employee stood his ground. After explaining the situation to HR, he received the support he needed.
“She literally laughed when she read it and told me to ignore him,” he said of the Dutch HR representative.
He also expressed sympathy for his American peers, however. “The fact that you have to apologise for a life outside of work is insane to us,” he said.
Other commenters chimed in, some in agreement:
And some not:
Either way, one thing is clear: logging off at 5 PM isn’t lazy — it’s peak Dutch.
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