5 things to know when you moved to Holland for love

So, it’s happened. You’ve fallen in love with a Dutchie, and in this blissful cloud of happiness and gezelligheid fueled by promises of bikes, canals, tulips, and windmills, you’ve taken the plunge and moved to Oranje. Congratulations! Welcome to The Netherlands! Everything is great here, you will love it.

Wait, not so fast. Now, what’s this? You don’t speak the language properly, you can’t ride a bike, and you aren’t sure that you enjoy the concept of constantly eating fried foods. But don’t despair, fellow expatriate, I’ve been there. Here’s what I would tell myself now:

1. Be proactive in making friends.

Things get lonely when you move to a new country, and this happens faster than you think – not that anyone tells you that! For the first few months you will be drowning in the excitement of being abroad and living in this magical land, but if the only people you are interacting with on a daily basis are your partner and your dog, you may start to go stir crazy. Plus, as much as the Dutch can be very welcoming, it can take a while to pierce their tight social circles, especially if you live in a small town like me. So, if you aren’t working or studying yet, why not join a local sports team, or a class that fills your free time with something that interests you? You will meet local people, get the giggles practicing your (pitiful) Dutch, and hopefully find someone who will be happy to listen to you butcher their language. And in that case…

Moved to Holland For Love
Disclaimer: Your actual friends may not be this cute.

2. Get used to being social.

If you are a miserable sod (and British) like me, you’ll want to avoid other people as soon as they cross your path. But you can’t really do that here in Nederland. People talk to each other… they like each other! Weird, right?! But have no fear. Soon you’ll be hallo-ing and hoi-ing with the best of them, socialising with your neighbours and navigating those Dutch circle parties like a native. It just may take a while…

These lions are clearly not Dutch…

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3. Moved to Holland For Love? Bask in the small charms of Dutch life.

Learn to cycle and take the bike everywhere; it’s so much more gezellig than walking. Travel to new cities and enjoy the fact that everything is so close together. Marvel at the windmills and endless bodies of water. Get excited when you see that man walking his dog wearing clogs, or the man shopping in the supermarket who was wearing them too. Yes, I have seen this. It really happens.

Don’t forget to eat all the cheese! 

4. Don’t be offended when the Dutch say how they feel. It’s just Dutch directness.

As a Brit, I am used to tutting quietly and exhibiting passive aggressive behaviour whenever another member of the human race pisses me off, but the Dutch are different. They will call you out on your mistake. It took me a while to get used to this, as I am quite sensitive and used to being overly polite in social situations due to years of indoctrination living in the UK. Once you start to understand the Dutch language however, you’ll realise that this is not personal and just how they speak to one another. It is quite liberating to be honest.

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5. Buy a fryer.

This will become a staple item in your kitchen. All the Dutchies have on. Soon you will be serving bitterballen at every social occasion, and eating fries, frikandel, and kroketten with the best of them. Trust me, this is one purchase you won’t regret if you need to break into your fried food reserves in an emergency. (here’s how to still stay thin)

This could soon be yours!

That’s it from me! Any other things one should know when you moved to Holland for love? Feel free to share!

 

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  2. No-one having curtains and your Dutch neighbours moaning if someone leaves a light on.
    Yeah, we shouldn’t forget to turn lights out, but if it bothers you put a fucking curtain up like every other nation!

    I wouldn’t care so much, but the neighbour concerned (who also has a habit of leaving his lights and tele on) seemed to think it acceptable to stare through my window and beckon me out to speak to him. Direct I’m fine with, I’m from North Lincolnshire which (like Yorkshire) specialises in that and despises all that Southern “If you wouldn’t mind … ” (=I don’t actually care whether you mind), “I’m not being rude, but” (=here is me being incredibly rude) … just as back home, there are incivil people, and they immediately hide behind Dutch directness as an excuse for being gobby shitbags.

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