Hold up — sororities and fraternities in the Netherlands? Isn’t that an American thing? Well, it’s complicated, but there is a Dutch version, alongside a whole stack of student associations.
In the simplest terms, these groups of students get together for socialising, networking, and…going kinda crazy.
They’re considered a gezelligheidsverenigingen (social association), and often come with strange traditions and strict rules. Members often even live together in sorority or fraternity houses.
Sound familiar? Let’s get into it.
What are these Dutch fraternities and sororities?
You’ve definitely seen them around: young Dutch guys with a gelled-up hairdo, matching suits and dirty classic ties. After all, that’s hard to miss.
In general, if you see groups of girls or guys all dressed identically, they’re probably from some branch of what’s known as ‘the corps’. Het Korpsis by far the largest student association in the Netherlands, with branches in every student city.
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It’s the oldest and most prestigious society, with weird traditions and often generational members. Famous chapters of this society are Minerva in Leiden (the King was a member there) and the — rather infamous — Vindicat in Groningen.
Membership fees are high enough to attract only the elite (or very wealthy) students since regular student budgets usually can’t afford it.
As a member of the studentencorps, you’re expected to have a high level of commitment, so maintaining social groups outside of this close-knit community is hard, but it is also why bonds made here are so strong.
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Society life tends to be stronger in the smaller cities where there’s not much going on at night. After all, what else is there for these raucous students to do?
The result, unfortunately, is that associations in places like Rotterdam and Amsterdam have more of a snobbish atmosphere (since fewer people are allowed to join).
Hazing — yep, that happens in the Netherlands
All right, let’s get to the juicy stuff. Throughout my bachelor’s degree, stories about what goes down at some sororities and fraternities have shocked and bewildered me.
I’m not going to attempt to separate the rumours from the truth, but it’s no secret that certain student societies in the Netherlands have made the news a few times for hazing (ontgroening).
Hazing, to some, means “pushing boys to become men” through tasks that are (apparently) designed to bond people together.
When these go too far, though, humiliation, violence and physical abuse have sometimes resulted.
In general, hazing has been limited at many universities, and there are now strict rules about what students are allowed to do during introduction weeks.
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For example, minimum water consumption and sleep hours must be met, and first-year students are not allowed to drink alcohol at all. It makes you wonder what it was like before, right?
Traditions of fraternities and sororities in the Netherlands
As if hazing wasn’t weird enough, some fraternities and sororities have traditions and rules they must follow — or risk removal.
One housemate I had was obliged to go drinking every Wednesday night, which seemed more like a chore for her when school got intense. So don’t underestimate them when they say there’ll be lots of drinking.
Another Dutch fraternity has a rule that they have to wear the same tie every night out. That’s not so weird, right? But here’s the thing: they’re not allowed to wash it.
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Some are in the fraternity for four or more years, and, despite wild nights out and countless beers spilt, that tie will never be washed. Gross.
My personal impression
It began, as many university stories do, during my introduction week. I wandered through the park filled with colourful stands of the many student associations, eating free ice cream.
“Hallo!” A perky girl jumped in front of me. She proceeded to ramble on about something I didn’t understand, so when she paused for a breath, I asked if she could switch to English.
That popped her inflated face pretty quickly. “Sorry, we’re only for Dutch girls,” she said blankly.
The heat sensors in the back of her skull caught on to another freshie, and she leapt upon the newcomer behind her, leaving me alone in front of the stand.
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After that, I was never particularly interested in joining what seemed to be nothing more than Dutch people getting drunk together. Some international friends joined and complained that the drinking became too much.
I’d see girls cycling out in matching uniforms every night, singing like deranged animals and barely scraping themselves into class the next day.
Going Dutch
To be honest, I think Dutch student societies were just too much of a culture shock for me. There seemed to be an attitude towards studies of “As long as I pass, it’s fine.”
This is not what I grew up with at all, and when you’re an international, you have a lot on the line when it comes to failing.
You’re paying triple the fees, have uprooted your entire life for your education, and the government has grounds to deport you if your grades aren’t high enough.
Spending tons of money to basically get wasted every week with people who didn’t really want me there anyway was just not for me.
I have, however, had international friends who joined sororities and fraternities and loved it.
They met new friends, went on trips that sometimes got them jobs after university, and helped them assimilate into Dutch culture. So check them out for yourself and see what you think.
Don’t worry, there are plenty of other ways to make great friends and have fun during your student years; I can promise you that. 😉
I made most of my friends at free drop-in sports clubs, my faculty’s magazine, oh and crying with fellow students at the back of the lecture hall (she laughs nervously).
Have you had an experience with a student society in the Netherlands? Tell us in the comments below!
