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The top 16 free ways to learn Dutch

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The top 16 free ways to learn Dutch

There are a few things to consider before learning Dutch, one of them being your budget. But if you’ve been spending your money on bitterballen rather than books (if so, we can’t blame you), then this is your sign to start studying!

Whether you’re a Nederlands beginner or looking to fall back in love with the language, here are 16 ways that you can learn Dutch absolutely free!

1. Take a free Dutch language course from your local library or municipality

Though renowned for switching to English when a non-native speaker starts practising their Dutch conversation skills, the Dutch really do want you to learn their language!

That’s why many Dutch public libraries and municipalities offer free courses for internationals living in the Netherlands.

READ MORE | How to learn Dutch: the ultimate guide (by people who learned!)

You can learn Dutch for free at almost any library in the Netherlands. You don’t even have to hold a library card!

They offer various courses, language learning activities, advice about study books, and conversation practice (taal in de bibliotheek).

2. Watch Dutch movies and use the Language Reactor extension

Have you set your subtitle language to Dutch, been fascinated by The Resistance Banker, or perhaps laughed at Just Say Yes? Then you’re well on your way to learning Dutch using Netflix.

READ MORE | The one where the cast of Friends tried to speak Dutch — and failed

But you haven’t mastered the art of Netflix and chill study until you use the Language Reactor Chrome extension!

This extension for Google Chrome will show your subtitles in two languages so you can compare the Dutch audio and text with a translation in your language.

Language Reactor also lets you watch the subtitles one at a time and change their playback speed.

Finally, it offers a pop-up dictionary — and will even suggest the most important words for you to learn! You can look at the Language Reactor catalogue to see which movies have high-quality Dutch subtitles. 

3. Follow a free online Dutch course

Are you at one of those stages of learning Dutch where you need a more structured plan of action? Then consider taking a look at a MOOC (Massive Open Online Course).

For learning Dutch, the University of Groningen offers a three-week introductory course where you’ll learn to speak, understand, and write basic Dutch. 

The course is well organised and accessible, and offers heaps of learning material: videos, quizzes, flashcards, and printable materials.

Plus, it only takes three weeks — so it’s an easy, quick, and completely free way to boost your Dutch.

4. Listen to Dutch music and podcasts

Get ready to move your body from links (left) to rechts (right) ‘cause we’re going to listen to some Dutch bangers!

(And please check out the song if you haven’t yet had the pleasure of being trampled by a cheery mob of drunk Dutchies at a street party. 👇)

READ MORE | Dutch Quirk #54: Play Links Rechts, non-stop at anything patriotic

In all seriousness, Dutch music is a great way to practice your listening skills. For example, you could memorise your favourite lyrics from Dutch rapper and pop artist Snelle (and, as added bonus, watch his documentary on Netflix).

Or, if you’re trying to practice your conversational skills, then spice up your commute or chores with a Dutch podcast.

5. Discover Dutch YouTube channels

Here’s another way to make your procrastination productive — yay! (or not, depending on your mood.) There are many YouTube channels out there for those trying to overcome the struggles of learning Dutch. 

A good place to start if you’re a beginner is YouTube channels designated for Dutch language learners. Some good ones are Easy Dutch, Dutchies to be, and Learn Dutch with Bart de Pau.

READ MORE | 21 YouTubers that’ll help you learn Dutch super fast

But if you want to watch something and feel a little less like you’re studying, then there are also regular YouTube channels run by Dutchies that spreken Nederlands in their videos.

These include DusDavid Games, Faenomenal and Iris Wellen, who posts some sweet dual-subtitled lifestyle videos.

6. Learn Dutch grammar online — no textbook needed!

While it might be more fun to learn about bizarre Dutch idioms or cool untranslatable Dutch words, grammar is your fundamental building block for learning a language! Often, grammar books are expensive and don’t exactly make for the most entertaining reads. 

@dutchwithlucas DE and HET Explained in Under 2 Minutes #dutchgrammar #learndutch #dutchlanguage #dutchwords #dutchlesson #dutchforbeginners #nederlandsleren ♬ original sound – Dutch with Lucas

Instead of investing in a brick full of bijzinnen and scheidbare werkwoorden, use the power of the fantastic interweb. 😆 We recommend checking out DutchGrammar.com for simple, clear explanations. 

7. Use Dutch language learning apps

Have you ever wondered how to say “yes, the rhinoceros is my pet” in Dutch? — No, really? Well, perhaps then “the girl ate my sandwich” — in the Netherlands, that could actually be useful.

Anyways, Duolingo is going to teach you this and many other seemingly random sentences.

As one of the world’s leading language learning apps, Duolingo is often the first place people turn when trying to learn Dutch fast and easy.  

But Duolingo isn’t the only language app out there! So if you’re not a fan of rhinoceroses (or don’t see the point in knowing how to say it in Dutch), then consider checking out one of these: 

  • Memrise is similar to Duolingo but often has more relevant content, and their free version is fantastic! 
  • Babbel has a free trial period that lets you get started with Dutch. 
  • Learn Dutch. Speak Dutch by Mondly requires just five minutes of practice a day.
  • 6000 Words allows you to learn with fun language games.

8. Read Dutch children’s books

When learning a new language, it sometimes feels like you’re a kid all over again. Or at least as if you have the vocabulary of a child, which can be — frustrating.

However, a great way to embrace these first stumbling steps on the journey to learning Dutch is by reading children’s books! Storybooks aimed at kids are written in simple language but often contain practical vocabulary. 

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Children’s books can be a lot of fun! Image: Goeverneur/Wikimedia Commons/Public Domain

Importantly, then they’re relatively easy to find for free! Check out if there’s a little free library in your neighbourhood or if you’re meeting your Dutch partner’s parents, then chances are your new schoonmoeder will be eager to give you your partner’s old Jip en Janneke books — dankjewel!  

9. Self-study with Dutch books from your local library

Just like they offer free language courses, Dutch libraries will also happily supply you with self-study books for learning Dutch!

The specifics vary slightly per library: some offer you a basically free (but limited) library card as a language learner, and others just let you visit the language learning centre to check out books.

10. Join a Dutch language learning Discord

A good way to stay motivated and make learning fun is by joining a Dutch language learning server on Discord.

Discord is an instant messaging system where you can join a particular group (server) that interests you and chat with like-minded people worldwide.

The Nederlands Leren/Learn Dutch server has over 5,000 members, many of whom are native speakers and are happy to talk to people learning their language. You may even find some new friends in real life!

11. Play games on Dutch servers

Language learning really can be all fun and games! Above, we saw that there are a bunch of chat servers you can join to learn Dutch. 

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Playing video games on a Dutch server can help you learn the language! Image: Depositphotos

These are great for becoming part of a language-learning community, but you could also join a Dutch gaming server if you’re interested in gaming. That way, when you play your favourite video games, you’ll hear and communicate with real Dutchies!

READ MORE | How to fake your way into speaking Dutch (in 5 steps)

This way, the main focus isn’t on learning Dutch, but if you’re gaming with a group of people who chat and speak Dutch, you’ll likely learn it as a byproduct! 

12. Switch the operating language on your computer or phone to Dutch

It almost seems too simple, but changing your language settings on your computer and phone is a good way to immerse yourself in the Dutch language!

You’ll learn some words that you’re used to seeing every day, and your brain will pick up Dutch easier as it recognises it more. 

Most likely, you’re so used to your laptop or phone interface that you won’t even have to translate Dutch — you’ll know what it means just from its icons and placement.

13. Pretend you don’t speak English

Since almost everyone in the Netherlands speaks English, living here can be an international’s dream — except when you’re learning Dutch (ja, echt).

Often, Dutchies will switch when you try to speak Dutch, simply because their English is way better than your Dutch. It’s well-meaning but doesn’t really help you in your language-learning journey. 

The best piece of advice that’s worked for me is to either be persistent and gently remind them that you’re trying to learn — or simply pretend you don’t speak English. “O, sorry, ik spreek geen Engels — maar wij kunnen Nederlands praten?”

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Start small! Practice your Dutch for free in a store — service encounters usually follow a predictable “script.” Image: Depositphotos

Pretending you don’t speak English can also be a mind trick for yourself to avoid speaking it at times when you could’ve used your Dutch.

We all know that saying something in English can be easier or faster, but the chances are that you do know how to say it in Dutch — so be patient with yourself and use the everyday Dutch phrases we know that you know! 😉

And if you forget a word, don’t worry! People are much more communicative and willing to understand you than you think.

14. Read the news in Dutch

News pieces communicate information in a clear and organised manner, so once you’ve graduated from children’s books, reading Dutch news could be the next step!

If you don’t feel quite confident enough to read the main news websites, you can start by browsing the NOS Jeugdjournaal, which is the public broadcaster’s online news for kids. It’s free, has interesting articles, and is written in easily understandable Dutch — triple win! 

READ MORE | Where to read Dutch news in English: the best outlets

Other Dutch news sources, such as RTL Nieuws, NU.nl, and the regular NOS, are also free to read online. You can also pick up a free Metro newspaper the next time you’re at the station and read it while you commute!

15. Surround yourself with Dutchies

Even if you live in the Netherlands, there’s no guarantee that you’ll be immersed in the Dutch language. That’s why you should take an active role in finding Dutchies who’ll practice with you!

In my experience, making Dutch friends or finding a Dutch partner is a good way to practice your conversation skills — and aside from maybe buying a coffee, it’s completely free! 

READ MORE | 19 ways to actually make friends as an expat in the Netherlands

So text your friends in Dutch, chat with them during a borrel, let them have a laugh as you try to pronounce Dutch tongue twisters, and listen as they passionately discuss Dutch memes.

The more you immerse yourself in the Dutch language, the more you’ll learn — and maybe it’s easier to blunder in front of friends than in a class. 

16. Participate in Dutch language cafés and exchanges

If, on the other hand, you got to know your Dutch friends and partner in English, and now it feels weird to speak Dutch together (we know the struggle), then consider finding a language buddy!

In many places in the Netherlands, you can attend a language café or exchange — completely free. 

Volunteer groups often arrange language cafés, universities, or social clubs, so keep an eye out for what’s on offer in your city. You can also look for someone to do a language exchange with.

This way, your language buddy will teach you Dutch, and you can teach them whatever language you speak! 

As you’ve seen, there are many ways to learn Dutch for free — 16 to be exact! All it requires is commitment, patience, and not being afraid to make mistakes.

Do you know of other ways to learn Dutch for free? Tell us in the comments below!

“Verjaardagskring”: A guide to surviving the circle of death at Dutch birthday parties

Emanuela Occhipinti
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“Verjaardagskring”: A guide to surviving the circle of death at Dutch birthday parties

Ah, the verjaardagskring. If you’re not Dutch, you might be wondering, “Is that a ritual? A secret society? A medieval punishment technique?” Close. 

The verjaardagskring (birthday circle) is a traditional Dutch birthday celebration where guests sit in a circle and engage in polite conversation. 

There’s no music, no dancing, minimal food, and just enough alcohol to keep you from chewing your own arm off.

Here’s a short, useful guide to attending a verjaardagskring, and living to tell the tale.

Congratulate everyone. No, seriously. Everyone.

When you arrive, prepare for the Dutch greeting. You must kiss every person three times: left, right, left, and say “gefeliciteerd” (congratulations). Not just to the birthday person, no. But to every single guest in the room. 

Yes, Jan’s great-aunt who hasn’t smiled since the Cold War? Gefeliciteerd. The neighbour you’ve never met before? Gefeliciteerd. The cat who’s minding her own business? Just to be sure, gefeliciteerd as well. 

READ MORE | 9 Dutch birthday traditions that’ll confuse the heck out of internationals

By the end, your voice will be hoarse and your social battery empty, but hey, you’ve bonded with strangers via forced cheer and uncomfortable proximity. You can do anything.

@driplist How it feels when you greet a 🇳🇱Dutchie and they’re going in for THREE KISSES🤣🤣 Dutchies, do you have particular people you give 3 kisses or its just comes out spontanously?😅 #livinginthenetherlands #dutchculture #dutchiescanrelate #dutchiesbelike #netherlands @Jillian ♬ original sound – Somi Lynda💕

Bring a small, inexpensive gift

You don’t need to show up with a grand gesture. A small token is expected, some flowers, maybe a fancy chocolate bar if you’re feeling extra wild. 

READ MORE | 14 downright stingy things Dutch people do

Just don’t come empty-handed, or you’ll be met with the same look Dutch cashiers give when you try to pay with a €100 note: pure suspicion mixed with a dash of judgement.

And remember, the Dutch are famously zuinig (that’s polite for “cheap”). So your modest gift won’t just be appreciated; it’ll be admired as an efficient, economical display of affection. 

Bring a bottle of mid-range wine, and you might just be crowned guest of the year.

Choose your seat like your life depends on it

Now comes the tension-filled moment: the seating. Remember, this is a circle, and you’re here for the long haul. Once you sit, you stay. It’s like musical chairs without the music or the fun.

@dutchreview

No one survives the circle of death 🧨

♬ original sound – Dvalin Gaming

Scope out the room — avoid the uncle who smells like Gouda cheese and regret, and try to snag a seat near someone who has displayed at least two different facial expressions.

Prepare for small talk that’s smaller than small

Dutch people are charming, practical, and enthusiastic about discussing… the weather. Wind resistance? Fascinating. Bike lanes? Riveting. Rain trajectory? Groundbreaking. 

READ MORE | Dutch Quirk #47: Complain about the weather nonstop

Don’t be surprised if the conversation keeps circling back (pun intended) to the birthday person and that one time they fell into a canal at age 6. It’s wholesome. It’s cringe. It’s verjaardagskring.

Eat beforehand or perish

This is where many internationals tragically fail. You hear “birthday party” and think snacks, food, possibly a buffet? No. The Dutch are minimalists, so prepare for the eating experience to be… frugal. 

@letsdoubledutch so congratulations 🍪 #verjaardag #gefelie #birthday #dutchbirthday #birthdayparty #kringetje #horror #traditional #expatlife #expatsinthenetherlands #expatsinamsterdam #letsdoubledutch ♬ original sound – Double Dutch

Expect a single small slice of cake, a handful of peanuts, cheese cubes impaled with toothpicks, and a splash of prosecco if you’re lucky. 

Eat before. Trust me. Otherwise, you’ll be nibbling on stale crackers, wondering if it’s socially acceptable to go raid the host’s fridge.

Know when to leave

There will be a moment of sweet, sweet silence. But don’t be fooled: this isn’t a rare occurrence. The verjaardagskring is riddled with small, awkward pauses. 

They appear every ten minutes or so, like unwanted and unskippable pop-up ads for dental insurance. Everyone quietly sips their drink, stares at the cheese cubes, and waits, just waits, for someone to say something.

@dutchreview Okay, we can take a hint. #fyp #dutchreview #expat #dutch #nl #dinner ♬ original sound – DutchReview

But when you feel that one long stretch of lingering silence, one where even the birthday person starts checking their phone, that’s your golden opportunity.

If you don’t seize it, someone will fill the void with a deep dive into wind patterns or parking regulations, and suddenly you’re trapped for another hour out of sheer politeness. 

Stand up, say your goodbyes, kiss everyone three more times, and make your escape while you still can.

The verjaardagskring isn’t just a birthday party, it’s a social endurance challenge. But once you get used to it (or learn to tolerate it), you might even start to enjoy the quirky charm of it all. 

Who needs loud music and fun anyway? Gefeliciteerd! You’ve made it.

Have you ever experienced the verjaardagskring at a Dutch birthday party? Tell us about your experience in the comments.

Woman says Arnhem abortion clinic “should have stopped me,” now she’s taking them to court

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Woman says Arnhem abortion clinic “should have stopped me,” now she’s taking them to court

A Nijmegen woman is taking an abortion clinic to court for performing her abortion. The woman claims that the medical team failed to evaluate her mental state before conducting a procedure she was not sure about. 

“This should never have happened,” she says. 

Now, the 33-year-old is taking the Arnhem abortion clinic to the disciplinary court, reports AD. 

“Everything happened in a daze”

The incident dates back to 2023. 

The woman says she arrived at the clinic feeling overwhelmed, carrying a bag of her own vomit from the car ride. 

After a consultation and an ultrasound, the woman was given medication for the abortion. 

Within an hour, the fourteen-week fetus was removed. 

“It all happened in a daze,” she told the Regional Disciplinary Board for Healthcare in Zwolle.

Before the procedure 

How did the woman end up in the clinic? After facing severe abdominal pain, a friend suggested taking a pregnancy test. 

To the woman’s shock, it was positive. 

She contacted the father, who didn’t want to keep the pregnancy, and soon after called the abortion clinic. 

Following a phone consultation, she was given an appointment five days later. 

Once presented with the consent form, the Nijmegen local says she signed it without thinking. 

She also didn’t check the boxes that confirmed she had read the form, but no one picked up on this. 

Although she believed her pregnancy to be in its early stages, an ultrasound showed otherwise. The woman was already 14 weeks along. 

She never got to see the ultrasound image, something that her lawyer argues should have happened. 

What’s happening now?

The doctor, nurse, and clinic manager were all present at the disciplinary tribunal. 

The clinic insisted they acted in good faith, noting that the woman had initiated contact herself and showed no signs of hesitation during the consultation. 

Why would a doctor perform an abortion if there were any indication that the patient was unwilling?

READ MORE | The ultimate guide to gynaecology, birth control, and check-ups in the Netherlands

The attending nurse acknowledged that the woman was looking straight ahead and seemed a bit sad. 

However, according to the nurse speaking at the tribunal, “That’s not unusual. We see it often.” 

Since the procedure, the woman has lost her job and now relies on social welfare. She attributes her current personal and financial struggles to the abortion. 

The disciplinary board, a court that ensures professional ethics, is expected to deliver its ruling within six weeks. 

What do you think of the woman’s decision to take them to court? Tell us in the comments. 

Queen Máxima has started training in the Dutch army

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Queen Máxima has started training in the Dutch army

As announced by the Government Information Service (RVD), Queen Máxima of the Netherlands began her training for the reservist Dutch army yesterday. 

The Dutch sovereign started her journey towards becoming a lieutenant colonel this past Wednesday, and she’s not messing around. 

Her eye-catching first day consisted of climbing scaffolding, shooting practice, and more. 

It’s not every day you see the Queen holding a pistol.

What’s she up to? 

While the Queen has regularly participated in military ceremonies and exercises for years, according to NOS, she took it to a new level this week. 

Joining up just in time for the age cut-off of 55 years, 54-year-old Máxima is working hard in her training for the army reserves.

Her first day has resulted in some pretty hardcore photos: 

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In spite of her training, she was all smiles. Image: ©Ministry of Defence

As a part-time soldier in the reserves, Maxima will undergo both theoretical and practical training, reports RTL.

And these aren’t just skills she will sit on. During national emergencies, reservists are deployed alongside professional soldiers. In more serious conflicts, they can also assume these soldiers’ responsibilities. 

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Queen Máxima makes a splash on her first day of training! Image: ©Ministry of Defence

But let’s hope it doesn’t come to that. 

When (and why) did she enlist? 

While it was officially announced earlier this week that she would be joining the reservist army, it doesn’t come as a shock. 

The decision makes perfect sense in light of the recent royal support of the Dutch military. 

Besides, she’s hardly the first Dutch sovereign to surprise us with her skills:

Máxima’s recruitment comes in close step with that of her daughter, Crown Princess Amalia, who has been promoted to corporal this past month, as announced by the RVD.

READ MORE | Queen Máxima jumps out of plane over Breda (and yes, there’s a video)

Ultimately, the Dutch royal support for the military aligns with a broader European emphasis on security and defence in 2026. 

Threats from US President Donald Trump and continued incursions by President Putin of Russia have put many EU leaders on edge. 

Military spending is going to be prioritised in the incoming Dutch coalition, and it’s clear they have Queen Máxima’s support!

Ministry hopeful for more recruits 

This public show of royal involvement in the military is likely to increase enlistment from others as well. 

Speaking with NOS, historian and royal family expert Coks Donders says that “with the images released of Máxima climbing and shooting, there are people who think: I want this too.”

When Princess Amalia first enrolled, the Defensity College saw its student numbers double, according to NOS.

Nothing like a little royal PR to boost recruitment! 

What do you think of Máxima’s decision? Let us know in the comments!

Working until you’re 72? The new Dutch coalition wants to up the retirement age

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Working until you’re 72? The new Dutch coalition wants to up the retirement age

Under the current plan by the D66, VVD, and CDA parties, state pension ages could rise to as high as 72 years old. Let’s get into it. 

Due to higher life expectancy among people currently under 60, the state pension age could increase if the new Dutch coalition gets what they want, NOS reports. 

And if they do get the green light? Starting in 2033, the retirement age will begin increasing in line with the expectation that we young folks are going to live longer. 

For youngsters already facing astronomical housing prices, climate catastrophes, and AI world domination, we can now add working into our 70s to the list.

Yippee. 

So, what’s my estimated retirement age?

According to the coalition’s plans, the AOW retirement ages (starting from those born in 1979), would look like this:

BirthdateNew AOW plan
July 1979 – March 198269 years, 3 months
April 1982 – December 198369 years, 9 months
January 1984 – September 198570 years
October 1985 – June 198870 years, 3 months
July 1988 – March 199070 years, 6 months
April 1990 – December 199270 years, 9 months
January 1993 – September 199571
October 1995 – June 199771 years, 3 months
July 1997 – December 199871 years, 6 months

If you’re born after 1998, our condolences. Who knows how long you could be working.

For a complete list of these estimations and an included comparison with the current AOW retirement ages, see this article by NOS.

Why are they doing this?

According to the coalition, pension-age requirements should more accurately reflect the one-to-one relationship between life expectancy and retirement age. 

Currently, life expectancy is rising faster than the retirement age. 

READ MORE | The ultimate guide to pensions in the Netherlands in 2026

Ultimately, these increases could enable the incoming cabinet to save €2.7 billion per year, according to NOS.

Of course, it’s not for certain: the coalition will have to get its plan through Dutch parliament first.

And not everyone is a fan of the proposal. Unions have responded negatively, reports NOS, arguing that those in more physically or mentally demanding jobs will be placed in an unfair and potentially harmful position. 

They fear that people will be forced to work beyond their limits or capabilities to secure their pensions. 

Working three extra years in a heavy construction job, for instance, is a dangerous way for a senior citizen to be spending their time. 

Let’s just say it’s no surprise Gen Z is economically nihilistic. 

What do you think of the coalition plans? Let us know in the comments! 

Should you hire a dismissal lawyer in the Netherlands? Here’s 6 times that answer is yes

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Should you hire a dismissal lawyer in the Netherlands? Here’s 6 times that answer is yes

Let’s be honest: when you lose your job in the Netherlands, calling a lawyer probably isn’t the first thing on your mind. Here’s the thing, though: Dutch employment law is actually pretty protective of workers, but only if you know your rights.  

And unless you’ve memorised the entire labour code (Burgerlijk Wetboek), that’s where a dismissal lawyer comes in handy.

So when should you actually consider hiring one? Here are six situations where getting legal help isn’t just smart, it could save you thousands of euros.

What does a dismissal lawyer actually do?

Before we dive in, let’s clear something up: a dismissal lawyer (ontslagadvocaat) isn’t just someone who shows up to intimidate your employer (though that’s a nice bonus).

They specialise in employment terminations and know Dutch labour law inside out. Their job is to make sure you’re treated fairly — whether that means negotiating a better severance package, challenging an unfair dismissal, or ensuring your employer actually follows the rules they’re supposed to follow.

You can also think of them as your legal translator for all the confusing Dutch employment jargon you’re about to encounter.

Need expert help navigating a dismissal? Ontslagspecialist specialises in supporting employees through terminations. With over 25 years of dismissal cases under their belt, they have plenty of experience helping internationals navigate these tough times, ensuring you understand your rights and get what you’re entitled to.

1. You’re being made redundant or facing a reorganisation

This is probably the most common reason expats end up calling a dismissal lawyer — and for good reason.

When your employer needs to cut costs or restructure, they might make you redundant through what’s called bedrijfseconomisch ontslag (economic dismissal). Sounds straightforward, right? Not quite.

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While being made redundant is hardly uncommon, a dismissal lawyer can check if your case was handled correctly. Image: Freepik

In the Netherlands, your employer has to follow strict rules: proper consultation, fair selection criteria, transition plans, the whole nine yards. A lawyer makes sure they’re actually doing all that (and not just picking you because you’re the easiest to let go).

Here’s what a lawyer ensures:

  • You’re not unfairly selected for redundancy (there’s a whole system for this called the “reflection principle”)
  • You receive a fair severance package (ontslagvergoeding)
  • Your employer follows proper legal procedures — or pays up if they don’t

Without legal help, you might accept the first offer that comes your way or miss out on thousands in compensation. Don’t be that person.

2. You’ve been fired “on the spot” (ontslag op staande voet)

Getting fired on the spot is serious business in the Netherlands. You’d have to mess up quite badly to achieve this. We’re talking theft, violence, major fraud, the kind of stuff that makes HR sweat.

The problem? Employers can get this wrong. For example, they may fire someone in anger without proper grounds or procedure, and suddenly what felt like righteous fury turns into an expensive legal mistake.

A dismissal lawyer will review whether your employer actually had legal grounds for your immediate dismissal. Did they follow the rules? Did they give you a chance to respond? If not, you might be entitled to serious compensation, or even reinstatement (if you want it).

And here’s the kicker: even if you did mess up, the dismissal might still be invalid if your employer didn’t follow proper procedure. Dutch law is fickle like that.

3. Your employer claims you’re “underperforming” (disfunctioneren)

Ah, yes, the classic “you’re not performing well enough” dismissal. It’s common, it’s awkward, and it’s often done incorrectly.

In the Netherlands, you can’t just be fired for poor performance overnight. Your employer must provide clear warnings, create an improvement plan (verbetertraject), give you a fair chance to actually improve, and document everything properly.

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A dismissal lawyer will make sure that you’ve been given a fair shake. Image: Freepik

A dismissal lawyer ensures that the performance issues are legitimate and properly documented, you’ve been given a fair improvement period, and the dismissal process is legally sound.

Without legal help, you might be pressured into resigning or accepting a weak settlement. And trust us, “voluntary resignation” is not your friend when it comes to unemployment benefits.

4. You want to make sure you’ll get your WW (unemployment benefits)

Believe it or not, losing your job in the Netherlands doesn’t automatically mean you’ll qualify for WW (werkloosheidsuitkering or unemployment benefits). And if you’re an expat who doesn’t fully understand the Dutch benefits system, this can get messy fast.

Common pitfalls include resigning voluntarily (usually no WW for you), getting dismissed because it was “your fault” (serious misconduct can disqualify you), and signing agreements that accidentally make you ineligible.

A dismissal lawyer helps ensure the dismissal is structured so you qualify for WW, helps you avoid agreements that disqualify you, and secures a proper reference letter for future employers.

This is especially important if you’re on a visa that depends on your employment. Three months to find a new job sounds reasonable until you realise you can’t get benefits because of a technicality.

5. You’re negotiating a settlement agreement (vaststellingsovereenkomst)

A vaststellingsovereenkomst (or VSO for short) is a formal agreement where you and your employer agree to end the employment contract, usually with a severance payout.

Sounds simple, but here’s the catch: once you sign, you can’t go back and ask for more. It’s legally binding, and you’ve officially waved goodbye to any future claims.

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Make sure you don’t sign any settlement agreements unless you’ve fully explored all your options. Image: Freepik

A lawyer ensures the severance amount is fair (often calculated using the kantonrechtersformule, a formula judges use), the agreement doesn’t contain sneaky clauses (non-compete, confidentiality, waiving future claims), and you’re not leaving money on the table.

Facing a settlement agreement? Settlement Agreement NL can help you understand what’s being offered and whether it’s actually fair. Think of it this way: your employer has lawyers drafting this agreement. Shouldn’t you have one reviewing it?

6. You suspect discrimination or unfair treatment

If you believe you’ve been dismissed due to discrimination, for example, due to your age, nationality, pregnancy, or disability, then you need legal help. Full stop.

Dutch law protects against discrimination, but proving it requires expertise, evidence, and knowing exactly which legal buttons to push. A dismissal lawyer can assess whether you have a case, gather evidence and build a legal argument, and push for compensation or reinstatement.

Discrimination cases are time-sensitive, too, so don’t wait around hoping things will magically resolve themselves. They won’t.

Have you ever hired a dismissal lawyer in the Netherlands? Was it worth it? Let us know in the comments below!

What your favourite Dutch mode of transport says about you

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What your favourite Dutch mode of transport says about you

The Netherlands has truckers, horse riders, hikers, bikers, chronic Uber-ers, and those who simply avoid the hassle of transport altogether by never going outside. 🙃 

Yet, your preferred mode of movement in this tiny country (where everything feels practically within walking distance) says a lot about you. Let’s find out what exactly…

🚶 By foot? You always go the extra mile

The whole world’s a catwalk, and you’re the model. You sashay through streets with motivational beats blasting through headphones, knowing full well it’s your city and everyone else is just living in it. 💃

READ MORE | Public transport in the Netherlands: the complete guide

Whether you prefer strutting in heels, clogs, or, heaven forbid, flip-flops, you never stumble or sprain your ankle — impossible. Your leg coordination is too effortlessly Parisian for such a slip-up. 

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Move, I’m better than you. Image: Freepik

…Either that, or you’ve developed a concerning Fitbit addiction that means you’ll do anything to get those steps in, including mindlessly jaywalking to work — watch out for Amsterdam’s fietsers! 

🚲 Ahh, the bicycle — Dutch, much?

Bikes: the ultimate emblem of Dutchness. Like a knight upon a steed, you grace the streets on your two-wheeler — and it’s probably also while you’re hands-free or simultaneously texting (don’t get fined!).

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You’re the king/queen of the world! Image: Freepik

Let’s face it, your mastery means that, regardless of whether you actually are or not, you seem hella Dutch. And hey, we’re not saying that’s a bad thing at all.

Whether it be an omafiets (granny bike), racefiets (race bike) — we mean you, wielrenners — or a stolen fiets, you will happily ride that thing until it’s been run into the ground (or drowned in a canal). If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. 

READ MORE | 19 things the Dutch did to make cycling easy and attractive

People don’t believe you when you say you don’t work out because your thighs are rock-hard. A bike ride a day keeps the doctor away. 🚲

🏍️ Motorbike? You don’t answer to anyone 😎 (can’t hear them anyway) 

Slow down, cowboy. When you feel the motorbike’s vibration and the sound of that engine roaring beneath you, you feel wheely cool. 

So much so that you can hardly stop yourself from blurting out “Salutations, milady” or “lekkertje” to a random passerby and zooming off poetically into the sunset.  

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Hey, you come here often? Image: Freepik

You can’t help it. This hairy biker/hell’s angel has always been trapped inside you. And with the rev of a Harley and the tip of a fedora, you set him free. 🤠

🚖 Uber? Get a grip (on some handlebars)

In the nicest way possible, you are part of the reason why millennials have a bad rep. It’s why we all keep getting told to “go outside and touch grass”, etc.

Maybe this habit started off innocently enough. One naughty Uber trip a week wasn’t hurting anybody until it led to two, then three. Before you knew it, you were taking them everywhere at all times.

Now you’re such a regular, every Dutch Uber driver knows the ins and outs of your love life. 

We get it, it’s a slippery slope. The good news is it’s not too late to turn this around. Pull the brakes on your Uber dependency by investing in a sturdy stadsfiets instead. Delete. That. App. Thank you. 🙂

🚆 Train? You always complain. 

Let’s be honest. You sort of love the drama of it all. Sprinting through the station, shoving past people, and gasping, “ga uit mijn weg!” (get out of my way). 

READ MORE | Train etiquette on Dutch trains: 8 things you’ll always see

The frantic dash onto the platform before the train doors slam shut in a near-decapitation. That pang of adrenaline as the train jolts over the tracks, which creaks and moans in terror like a roller coaster ride. 

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Get a room (or a separate train carriage), you two 🤭. Image: Freepik

Once inside, you like to discreetly eavesdrop on the scandalous conversations people have on their phones.

You also secretly spritz on some cologne/perfume because, well, you never know. Maybe you’ll meet the love of your life on a train one day. 👉👈🚅

🔌 Is it an e-bike? You want to pretend to be healthy

You say you’re going to do yoga, but end up lying on your bedroom floor and just napping instead.

READ MORE | 7 things you need to know when buying a refurbished e-bike

Maybe that 50-hours-a-week job has whittled down all and any energy reserves, or your thighs just hurt like hell after leg day, but the bottom line is, you just can’t be arsed anymore. 

So, you splash out on the latest e-bike to avoid having to actually pedal the 5 kilometres to your office. 

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Sure, eat that salad (as if you’re not going to McDonald’s immediately afterwards). Image: Freepik

Even so, you want to maintain the appearance of an actual human being who exercises on a semi-regular basis. The e-bike provides a simulation convincing enough that you’ll believe your legs are what’s plodding that thing along. 

Plus, the cold air hitting your face keeps you from passing out behind the “wheel”. 😶‍🌫️

🚌 Bus? Is it driving you mad — we mean, around? 

Your daily commute consists of sweaty strangers, obnoxious coughing, and screaming children.

From the chaotic queueing to last-minute cancellations and jackets getting stuck in automatic bus doors, what’s not to love? 

Still, the trials and tribulations of public transport build character. You’re so jaded and hardened by the mysteriously stained seats that aeroplane rides and bumper cars are a breeze in comparison. 

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Lemme guess, you feel like you’ve been hit by a bus? Image: Freepik

Your stomach, too, is as hard as nails. Twists and turns on winding roads while you poke away at your phone’s keyboard no longer faze you — basically, you’re motion sickness-proof. And all-around invincible. 💪

🚁 Helicopter parent? You’re a bored billionaire 

Okay, Jeff Bezos. Come back to earth — literally as well as figuratively. 

That whirring sound isn’t a bird, a plane, or even a governmental drone. Instead, it’s a billionaire flaunting their wealth and infinite belongings (*cough* hoarder) to us mere serfs.

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Mwahahaha. Image: Freepik

You might use euro banknotes for toilet paper and own half of Amsterdam’s real estate, but there’s no need to show off just because you can. It seems like you’re on a police search, hovering above us like that. 

Get down from that high horse of yours — an actual horse would be more environmentally friendly. 🤔

How accurate was this highly scientific mode of transport-based psychoanalysis? Share your thoughts in the comments below! 

Code red in northern Netherlands: No trains or buses due to black ice

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Code red in northern Netherlands: No trains or buses due to black ice

The north is on high alert this morning, with the RIVM releasing a code red weather warning for deadly “black ice”, which has already paralysed roads and public transport. 

Early this morning, residents of Groningen, Friesland, and Drenthe were urged to stay indoors as extreme icy conditions affected the region. 

When it rains in negative temperatures, the droplets immediately freeze on the ground and continue to freeze, turning highways, pavements, and fietspads into sheets of black ice. Even gritting can’t do much here. 

According to NOS, the result is a rare code red weather warning, due to dangerous road accidents and public transport being brought to a complete halt.

No trains or buses 

All train and bus platforms up north are now deserted. 

There will be no trains to or from the provinces of Drenthe, Groningen, and Friesland until 11 AM today. 

The NS trains that depart from the Randstad and Gelderland for these provinces will turn around in Zwolle. 

Bus services follow suit, as Qbuzz announced last night that there will be no buses in Drenthe, Groningen, and Friesland until 10:30 AM. 

Road accidents on the rise 

The danger of black ice has led to many accidents on the A6 and A28. Vehicles have skidded off the road, some ending up in ditches or worse.

The A28 towards Groningen was closed between Vries and Eelde at around 7 AM.

Bianca Damink of the ANWB’s traffic department told NOS that extremely slippery conditions are making it difficult for emergency services to reach accident sites.

The number of traffic accidents reinforces the advice: stay home.  

Essential services are affected too 

The slippery conditions have rippled through daily life. 

Hospitals cancelled morning appointments and surgeries to prevent patients from getting into an accident on the way to the hospital. 

Meanwhile, the regional waste management company Omrin temporarily halted its operations after several of its garbage trucks were involved in road accidents. 

With the last code red dating back to 2023, this is a rare and serious warning. We urge all our readers to stay home and stay safe — black ice is simply not a risk worth taking.

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Is this Europe’s answer to Wall Street? Euronext Amsterdam wants to keep Dutch investments out of the US

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Is this Europe’s answer to Wall Street? Euronext Amsterdam wants to keep Dutch investments out of the US

Formerly known as Amsterdam’s Stock Exchange, Euronext Amsterdam is doing splendidly — now, they want to make investing locally even easier. 

According to AD, companies are showing growing interest in IPO’s, and share prices are generally rising. 

In other words, 2026 shows signs of being a great year for Euronext, which also welcomed several large companies in 2025.

So, if everything is going so swimmingly, why are they looking to make changes? 

Euronext wants local, private investment 

While this all sounds like good news, Euronext CEO René van Vlerken argues that these benefits rarely trickle back to the wider population (since the main investors at Euronext are companies, not individuals). 

Rather than investing here, Dutch people are putting their money in the American stock market.

READ MORE | Investing in the Netherlands: 7 great apps for getting into stocks in 2026

Van Vlerken argues that European regulation (and Dutch regulation specifically) makes private investment too difficult.

Speaking with AD, he explained, “You have to pass a sort of exam before you can invest, and it’s a lot of paperwork. Private investors are practically demotivated.”

The investment hub is therefore looking to keep Dutch money in the Netherlands by making it simpler and more appealing to invest locally, rather than in the US. 

Why do Dutchies cling to their cash? 

It’s a bit surprising that the Dutch are so careful about investing, given how low interest rates currently are. 

READ MORE | Investing vs saving in the Netherlands: What’s the right choice in 2026?

If anything, there is plenty of motivation to get your money out of the bank (since it’s definitely not growing there). 

Younger investors, for instance, are even turning to crypto, reports AD. So, clearly, there is a desire to invest. 

According to van Vlerken, though, while companies are happily breaking into the stock exchange, private investors are not too keen. He says this is also due to a lack of awareness. 

“We need to convince investors that there are European gems worth investing in and ensure we identify and continue to support the new ASMLs,” he said to AD. 

What’s the solution? 

To hear van Vlerken tell it, the plan involves a whole lot of convincing.

Not only should banks be discouraged from making private investment more difficult, but individuals should also be encouraged to support European companies. 

He also says pension funds need to be drawn in. Rather than investing in American tech giants, they could be putting their money into Euronext, says van Vlerken.  

READ MORE | You should be supplementing your Dutch pension: here’s why (and how to do it) 

It’s also about easing regulation. 

Some argue that the relative ease of investing in the US, with apps and online brokers, is incomparable to the hoops a Dutch individual must jump through to invest in Euronext-listed companies. 

And, says van Vlerken, education is a key factor: “We advocate for including investing in secondary school curricula.”

Introducing your teenager’s new favourite class: Money Moves 101. 

What do you think of Euronext’s ambitions? Let us know in the comments! 

15 dang smart things Dutch people do

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15 dang smart things Dutch people do

Whether it’s hot tips on saving money or getting furniture up those narrow staircases, the Dutch are constantly coming up with innovative life hacks. 

But what clever things are particularly Dutch? Here are just a few of the smart things Dutch people do — with a little help from our readers.

1. Be ready for rain on any occasion

If you live in a country that gets as much rain as the Netherlands, you should always be prepared.

Whether it’s constantly checking Buienradar (the Dutch rainfall app) before they leave the house, or carrying rain trousers just in case of an unexpected shower, the Dutch are masters at managing all things precipitation.

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A little rain won’t stop a Dutch person from biking. Image: Freepik

Another thing the Dutch have mastered? Cycling in the rain.

READ MORE | 12 of the best apps to have as an international in the Netherlands

Anyone who has attempted to hold an umbrella while trying not to crash their bike can confirm that this is no easy feat. 

2. Put huge bins on cycling paths

Picture this: you’re riding along on your second-hand student bike, but you’ve still got that pesky wrapper from that frikandelbroodje you had for lunch.

Luckily, the Dutch have already considered this possibility. Some cities have conveniently placed large round rubbish bins along the cycle paths! 

It stops littering and makes you feel like you’re playing some kind of Olympic sport, in which the Dutch would come out on top 🥇.

Go for a ride and a shoot when you need a small win and want to feel like Michael Jordan. 

3. Make a country by building dikes

As an old saying goes, “God created Earth, but the Dutch created the Netherlands.” And okay, this is something the Dutch did a long time ago, but it’s still pretty “dam” impressive (pun intended 😉).

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It also explains why every other Dutchie you meet is studying water management.

READ MORE | 7 things the Dutch are ridiculously good at

As a quick explanation, the Dutch reclaimed land from the sea by building many dikes and barriers to hold back water.

This practice began in the Middle Ages and increased tenfold during the Dutch Golden Age, when Dutch hydraulic engineers honed their skills. 

4. Teach languages from a young age

You may have already twigged that the Dutch are the best non-native English speakers in the world since they seamlessly switch to English at the drop of a hat.

But how do they become so good at languages? Well, that’s because they start learning new languages in preschool. 

READ MORE | Why are the Dutch so good at speaking English?

It’s common in the Netherlands for children to attend bilingual (or even trilingual) kindergartens. This is smart to do while children are young and their brains are more adept at learning languages.

So don’t be surprised if a Dutch child starts talking to you in perfect English — they’re super evolved. 

5. Master using a bike as a moving and delivery system

While we’re on bike-based multitasking, the Dutch balance as much as humanly possible on the back of a bike.

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Have you seen Dutchies towing suitcases, sofas, and even fridges between bikes? Yes, it is both as mad and impressive as it sounds.

Dutchies also transport Christmas trees by bike in a holiday rendition of this skill. 🎄

6. Hang a birthday calendar in the toilet

While it may seem slightly strange to think about your family and friends’ birthdays in the same room that you *ahem* “attend to business”, it’s pants-droppingly clever.

READ MORE | 14 things you’ll find in Dutch houses that make internationals go: “Wait, what?”

How else will you remember to get your Aunt Inge her 50th birthday card if you’re not reminded every time you pee?

You also might’ve been tempted to add your name to an unsuspecting family calendar after a few too many biertjes. 

7. Hoist furniture into a house using an external building hook

Since the canal houses in the Netherlands are so narrow, you need a way to get furniture up those deadly staircases. That’s where the hoisting hook comes in. 

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The hook is not just for decoration, it turns out! Image: Depositphotos

Don’t worry, it’s not as morbid as it sounds.

You may have seen these large hooks hanging outside old Dutch houses. They’re used to pull furniture up by a rope pulley system, which most Dutch van rentals offer for just a few euros nowadays.

READ MORE | Dutch Quirk #71: Have impossibly narrow and steep stairs in their houses

You then guide the furniture through your window. All of a sudden, that funky Dutch architecture is starting to make sense, right?

8. Make bus stops bee-friendly 

Bus stops for bees sound like something out of Sesame Street, but this cute Dutch concept was brought to improve the air quality in Utrecht.

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Over 300 “bee stops” were created by putting grass and wildflowers on the tops of bus stops.

READ MORE | 15 weirdly cute things Dutch people do

These wild gardens encourage bees to pollinate the flowers and increase the city’s biodiversity. Who said you can’t save the bees and look gorgeous simultaneously? 💁‍♀️

9. Have a jar scraper for that last bit of peanut butter

No one likes waste, especially not the Dutch. So, of course, they invented the flessenlikker.

This Dutch device translates to “bottle licker,” which ensures you get every bottle’s last drop of sauce.

READ MORE | 14 downright stingy things Dutch people do

It was introduced in the 60s, when manufacturers began packaging more food in glass containers. It’s now a staple of Dutch homes, so don’t be offended if they ask you to grab their flessenlikker.

10. Having the iDeal alternative to credit cards

When discussing smart apps, we must mention iDeal: the online payment system that links to your Dutch bank account.

No more typing in that long credit card number, which you’ll find yourself doing less since some sites only take iDeal payments.

READ MORE | The best credit cards for expats in the Netherlands

The danger is that it makes spending far too easy, but at least you won’t rack up a hefty credit card bill, given that most Dutch people prefer to use debit cards or prepaid bank cards.

Goodbye savings, hello debt-free shopping. 💸

10. Use apps to keep track of who owes what

If you’ve been in the Netherlands for over a minute, you’ll have heard of Tikkie. The Dutch app makes it incredibly easy to send people money.

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Going Dutch means paying your way. Image: DutchReview

Yes, you will get messages asking you for €0.50, but you’ll find yourself saying, “I’ll send you a Tikkie,” in no time. 

You’ll never have to argue about splitting the bill again — you get to be the hero and still get paid back when you send your hungover Tikkies the next day.

12. Give fish doorbells so they can migrate through canals

Yes, you did read that right. A canal lock in Utrecht became the home of the world’s first fish doorbell.

Okay, it’s not a doorbell in the traditional sense.

Instead, underwater cameras at the Weerdsluis show how many fish are waiting at the lock. People watching online can press the doorbell when they see fish in the queue.

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Utrecht’s canals are home to many different kinds of fish. Image: Depositphotos

READ MORE | 11 jobs that are so Dutch they could only exist in the Netherlands

This might sound like something out of a Monty Python sketch, but it has been integral to helping fish migrate between water depths and to prevent predators from preying on the waiting fish en masse.

The native fish need to be in deeper water over the winter to keep warm and in shallower water in the spring to breed.

Ding dong! Who’s there? Innovation!

13. Build wildlife bridges for animals to cross highways

Have you spotted those beautiful bridges carved out of nature? As well as being stunning structures, ecoducts are a smart invention.

Wild animals use them to cross busy roads safely.

There are over 600 ecoducts spread across the country to let wild boar, deer, and other furry friends cross highways. 

14. Openly talk about taboo topics 

The Netherlands has a reputation for being progressive when it comes to sex and drugs.

Tourists flock to the country for many reasons, including visiting coffee shops and the Red Light District. But these progressive attitudes are more than just a tourist trap.

READ MORE | 14 forward-thinking things Dutch people do

When debating with the Dutch, no topics are off the table.

Openly discussing sexuality and gender politics led to the Netherlands being the first country to legalise gay marriage. Of course, there is still progress to be made on many fronts, but the Dutch are at least open to discussing the big topics.

Unless it’s about having anything other than a sandwich for lunch. Trust us when we say there’s no room for debate there.🥪

15. Have two Christmas Days

Because why have one when you can have two? The more festivities, the better.

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Now, we’re not talking about Sinterklaas — that’s a whole other kettle of fish.

We’re talking about the fact that the Dutch do all the feasting and present opening on Christmas day with one side of the family, then do it all again the next day with the other side.

So that’s two Christmas dinners, two lots of presents, and twice as many confused relatives when you explain what you “actually” do for work.

You’ll never have to argue about whose folks you’re going to, but you will be exhausted after two days of small talk and family politics. 

What smart things have we left off the list? Tell us in the comments below!

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