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What does your favourite porn say about you? This Dutchie is trying to find out

Let’s kick off your day with a pressing question: Are you more of a “gangbang,” “milf,” or “amateur” aficionado? Yes, we’re diving into the world of porn.

Either way, your answer might reveal more than you think — at least according to Samira van Bohemen, a researcher at Erasmus University in Rotterdam. She’s currently busy investigating how our porn preferences might be linked to our social backgrounds.

She is highly interested in this correlation, as she tells Barabara de Jong from the AD — especially considering the fact that some of us “watch porn more often than they brush their teeth”. 🤫

So, what does porn tell us about ourselves?

If you gravitate toward the “slutty schoolgirl” trope (the scientist’s words, not mine), it might be a sign that certain forms of gender inequality are manifesting themselves in your body, which is why this type of content arouses you sexually.

But this (maybe unconscious) bias is not entirely your fault; it is mostly taught by your environment. That’s why, according to Van Bohemen’s research, the surroundings we grow up in might just have a say in shaping our porn preferences.

While Van Bohemen can’t say yet whether someone from a disadvantaged neighbourhood may have different preferences than someone who grew up in an upscale area, this is part of what her research is digging into.

For example, “We are examining whether individuals raised in very conservative environments, who hold the belief that men and women are fundamentally different, are more attracted to certain stereotypes than those from more progressive backgrounds,” she tells the AD.

The unspoken out in the open

Over the coming five years, Van Bohemen and her team will investigate why people from different social backgrounds are attracted to certain stereotypes in porn.

In doing so, Van Bohemen is uncovering something that’s usually hidden in our daily lives.

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Similarly, porn often deals with themes we tend to sweep under the rug, such as the inequality between men and women, class differences and sexual preferences for ethnic groups.

The first findings of the study will be presented in November at the Erasmus University Rotterdam. So, stay tuned, because things are about to get… revealing. 😏

What do you think about Van Bohemen’s research? Share your thoughts in the comments!

A new coronavirus vaccination round has just begun: here’s why (and who can get it)

A new round of coronavirus vaccinations is underway in the Netherlands. Bookings open today, and appointments will take place between September 16 and December 6.

According to a press release by the Dutch government, the launch of the vaccination round is meant to protect the most vulnerable groups from the seasonal coronavirus wave.

Specifically, the Omicron variant that’s currently doing the rounds. 

Who is it for?

The new round of vaccinations targets people aged 60 and over, health workers, and anyone from a risk group.

However, people outside these groups who wish to receive a vaccine for personal reasons can still request one. This includes pregnant people who are officially no longer considered a category at risk.

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The vaccine is free and accessible to anyone registered in a Dutch municipality, regardless of nationality.

How do I book a vaccine appointment?

If you belong to the risk groups mentioned above, you will receive a personal invitation by post. Letters are being sent from today, so yours could already be on the way. 

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Otherwise, you can schedule an appointment online with your local GGD (Municipal health service). 

Where do I go?

Most people can get their shot at their local GGD vaccination location.

People who are unable to do so for health reasons, however, can request that the GGD provide them with their injection at home.

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Do you have any more questions? You can call 1400.

Are you considering getting vaccinated this autumn? Tell us in the comments below.

Man who filmed friend drowning sent to prison for eight weeks

After failing to help a drowning friend, whose death he filmed, a 55-year-old man named Alex S. was sentenced to eight weeks in prison on Monday.

The pair were swimming at a lake in the Dutch town of Rosmalen, in 2022 when the victim asked Alex S. to film him in the water. They had been drinking heavily.

S. continued to film and did not intervene for at least ten minutes while the man’s body remained still in the water with his head bent forward, nu.nl reports.

Ten minutes of footage

In his ten-minute-long video of the tragic drowning, you can hear S. notice when things go very wrong: “He’s dead, you know… He drowned”.

He later told the court that he thought it was all a joke at first; the victim did not ask for help, wave his arms, or struggle.

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“Nothing happened for ten minutes. That’s hard to understand,” the judge says.

Eventually, S. pulled his drowned friend out of the water, tried to resuscitate him in a panic and called emergency services.

Eight weeks of prison

The judge found that an initial demand for an unconditional three-month sentence was too severe.

This was taking into account S.’s intellectual disability and the fact it took so long for the case to go to court.

Alex S. will now serve eight weeks, of which five are conditional. His lawyer announced immediately following the sentencing that he would appeal this.

Are you surprised by the man’s eight-week sentence? Let us know in the comments below.

Dutch Quirk #127: Ring their bike bell while they tailgate you

Ever been interrupted mid-leisurely bike ride in the Netherlands by a harsh bell ringing behind you? Craning your head around, you probably spotted the perpetrator creeping up on your rear. 

Your initial instinct might be to panic or stop, drop, and roll (word of advice: don’t do that).

You ask, what does this cycling stranger want from me? Are they cat-calling, angry, or just giving a little salutation? Welcome to the mysterious world of Dutch bike etiquette. 

What is it?

That ringing sound behind you is a way for a Dutchie to alert you to their presence while not in your vision. 

Maybe the bell strikes as you’re about to round a corner, a busy intersection, or still clambering onto your bike (not quite able to swing your legs over like it’s a well-tamed horse). But why?

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Chances are, if a Dutch cyclist rings their bell while they tailgate you, they probably want to overtake — or, in some rare cases, prevent you from crashing into them. 

The bell is a polite notice to say that you and your rookie international bike moves, while endearing, are a bit too langzaam (slow) for their tastes.

They’re probably about to usurp you with skill and grace that will leave you gazing with admiration. 

Why is it quirky? 

One reason this phenomenon might feel so distinctly Dutch is that cyclists from other countries are less confident manning the bike lane. 

That’s why they usually keep careful 10-metre distances between two-wheelers, and tailgating doesn’t seem to feature in their vocabulary. 

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But in some sense, it doesn’t feature for fearless Dutchies’ either since their idea of “tailgating” is just a perfectly reasonable amount of space between bicycles — why would we need a word for it? 

Once on top of that saddle, they are comfortable getting up close and personal. 

Should you join in? 

Terrifying and intimidating as this practice may feel at first, it’s certainly thoughtful. What else can they do?

Being overtaken in complete silence would undoubtedly make your blood run cold, not to mention the increased risk of a dangerous collision.

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So, it’s advisable that next time you feel bold enough to overtake someone, you give them a similar heads-up before scaring the living daylights out of them. 

Have you experienced this Dutch quirk? Tell us in the comments below!

The Dutch royal family had someone arrested… for driving the same route as Princess Amalia?

As Dutch radio DJ Serginio Piqué and some friends were driving from Amsterdam to Belgium earlier this month, they were arrested and held at gunpoint by the police. Their crime? Driving the same route as Princess Amalia.

Suspected of following the princess, the royal family’s protection service had alerted the Belgian police about the allegedly suspicious car.

But it all turned out to be a big mistake, as Het Parool reports.

An unfortunate coincidence

So, what actually went down? The incident happened on August 2, when Piqué and his friends were driving from Amsterdam to Belgium for a meal.

Coincidentally, the car in front of them happened to be transporting Princess Amalia along the same exact route, which alarmed her security team.  

When Piqué’s group arrived in Antwerp, they were taken by surprise when they were greeted by a team of heavily armed agents wearing balaclavas.

The group of friends was ordered to get out of the vehicle and kneel on the ground. As this was happening, agents were pointing weapons at them.

After arresting and interrogating the “suspects” for one hour, the police eventually realised their mistake. 

A case of racial profiling?

The Belgian agents were likely tipped off by the Dutch Royal and Diplomatic Protection Service (DKDB), the royal family’s security service. 

The DJ and his friends suspect their skin colour contributed to the authorities’ disproportionate reaction, and view the incident as racial profiling.

The traumatic experience undermined the group’s “sense of security and justice”, says Piqué’s lawyer, Vito Shukrula.

As a result, they expect the royal family to address the incident and possibly provide reparations. 

What do you think of the authorities’ reaction? Share your opinion in the comments below. 

A new night train will soon connect the Netherlands to Italy — but there’s a catch

Fancy swapping the canals for, well, more canals? Next February, you can catch a European Sleeper train from the Netherlands to Venice, Italy.

You can buy tickets on European Sleeper’s website from Sunday, September 1, for the exciting new nighttime route, Euronews reports.

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Linking five European countries

The seasonal night train will travel from Brussels through Rotterdam, Utrecht, Cologne, Munich, Innsbruck, Bolzano and Verona — before finally arriving in beautiful Venice. 🤌

That means stunning views of the Alps will accompany your journey, making it hard to peel your eyes away from the window.

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Live out your wildest Sound of Music fantasies mid-journey. Image: Depositphotos

The full journey will take around 20 hours, with the train departing Brussels at 5 PM and making its way to Venice by 2 PM the next day. Natuurlijk, you can also choose to get off at any of the destinations along the way.

The only catch? Venice will not be a permanent destination in European Sleeper‘s route lineup.

Instead, the new night trains will only run during the months of February and March, departing twice a week as tourists flock to Venice for its famous carnival celebration. 🎉

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So, don’t miss your chance! (And watch this space because European Sleeper is also planning to open a new route between Amsterdam and Barcelona. 👀)

Would you catch the new night train to Venice? Let us know in the comments below.

Save the date! It’s going to be almost impossible to travel by public transport on this day

They say lightning never strikes in the same place twice, but transport workers in the Netherlands do — so mark September 11 in your calendars.

Regional transport workers just announced that they will be striking in the second week of September, NOS shares.

They join the NS train strikes previously announced by FNV on the same date — which means not only will the NS services be down, but so will regional transport.

Morning commutes will be difficult

Those of us with a morning commute will be particularly unlucky.

This is because the strike affects morning hours. The NS and regional transport will not run between 4 AM and 8 AM, so you might want to work from home where possible.

You can check urban transport links in cities like Amsterdam, The Hague and Rotterdam as they will continue to run.

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But even that might prove difficult on September 10, as a short work stoppage in urban transport is also planned.

Why are they striking?

These strikes are intentionally planned on the same day for a BIG impact.

The unions hope the disruption pressures the government to share further plans for the so-called RVU scheme.

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The scheme, which allows heavy job workers to retire three years earlier than normal, is set to expire next year.

So far, the government has yet to approve an extension of the measure. Time will tell if the strikes help speed up their decision.

Will you be affected by the strikes? Let us know in the comments below.

Man killed by cattle while walking dog in Dutch nature reserve

On August 10, a man died while hiking in a nature reserve near Spaubeek, Limburg. He was trampled by a herd of cattle. 

The 67-year-old was walking his dog through a pasture area of the Vrouwenbos reserve that had only recently opened to the public, a witness tells NOS. 

A fatal stampede

According to the witness, the cows only became violent when the hiker’s dog lunged at them.

They stampeded towards the man, running him over. Unfortunately, all resuscitation efforts failed. 

No investigation

Since the tragic incident did not involve any criminal offences, the police will not be conducting a further investigation. 

The exact circumstances of the incident remain unclear. 

One theory is that the cows became protective over their calves. Another is that they simply weren’t used to visitors yet. 

Whatever the reason, the incident exposed a safety hazard, and the Beek municipality has closed the reserve for the time being. 

Do you think the reserve should close permanently? Share your opinion in the comments below.

The world’s biggest redhead gathering is happening in the Netherlands this weekend

Hair we go again! The 19th edition of the Redhead Days Festival, the world’s biggest event for red-haired people, is about to kick off in Tilburg. 

Starting tomorrow, thousands of redheads and their families, friends, and fans are expected to convene in Tilburg’s Spoorpark for a weekend of light-haired fun. 

Everyone is welcome

With free admission and a program packed with all sorts of fun activities, this three-day festival promises to be a blast.

There will be music, food, and workshops — all leading up to the festival’s main event, the final photoshoot!

That’s right: at 2 PM on Sunday, all the participating redheads are invited to squeeze in for the festival’s iconic group picture.

This year, the colour theme for the group’s dress code will be green, so come prepared!

A record-winning history

The Redhead Days Festival started in 2005, due to a man’s people-pleasing tendencies.

Breda painter Bart Rouwenhorst needed 15 red-haired models for an exhibition, so he published an advertisement in a local newspaper. 

When 150 people replied… he simply couldn’t turn any of them down — so he photographed them all!

Because it was such a blast, the gathering became a yearly event. It kept growing, eventually blossoming into the international sensation we know today. 🍊

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In 2013, the annual group picture even made it into the Guinness Book of World Records for the most redheads gathered in one photo — 1,672 people!

Will the 2024 picture break this record? The only way to find out is to go to the festival. 😉

Would you like to join the Redhead Days Festival? Tell us in the comments below.

There’s only ONE home in Amsterdam that an average Dutch salary can afford; but here’s why starters are finally getting a chance

Are you thinking of buying a house in Amsterdam? Unfortunately, it’s a slim possibility for those on a normal salary. 

Some may be shocked to hear that a listing for a 31 square metre studio has just sold for €185,000. 

But what’s even more shocking is that this was the only home listed for which you could get a loan if you earned an average salary (without contributing any extra money).

But it’s not all negative 

According to Het Parool, the average income of an Amsterdammer is €44,000. And, as housing prices climb, it is becoming increasingly less likely for the average Joe to buy a home in the Netherlands’ busiest city.

However, if you’re a first-time buyer, don’t give up hope just yet. According to the Dutch Land Registry, the number of young buyers in the Netherlands is rapidly rising.

Due to recent changes to housing regulations in the Netherlands, such as the introduction of the Affordable Rent Act and increased interest rates and transfer tax, many investors have decided to sell their rentals. 

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That’s because the Affordable Rent Act limits the ability of landlords to charge excessively high rents, particularly for those smaller apartments. 😉

As a result, 55% of homes that recently came to the market were bought by people under 35. 

Here’s to hoping we can all buy our own homes shortly!

Are you currently in the process of buying a home in the Netherlands? Let us know your experience in the comments below! 👇